Why #IStandWithPP Today

September 29, 2015

After months of vicious attacks involving videotaped conversations portraying Planned Parenthood employees selling “baby parts” on the black market for profit, our country’s budget is nearly stalled out as right-wing Republicans call for “investigations” and threaten to shut down the government.  This is not the first time women’s rights have been under attack, nor will it be the last, because we live in a misogynistic culture.  Even though I live in a mostly upper middle class white neighborhood, I see signs of it each and every day among affluent women – grown women who choose to dress, speak and live according to “norms” and standards that a male-dominated culture has established for them – and they don’t even seem to notice or mind.  Well I do.

"Pipe Women" by Fox Photos on Getty Images
“Pipe Women” by Fox Photos on Getty Images

To be clear, I think abortion is a tragically sad thing and I assure you, nobody that has one is thrilled about it.  I have seen many women experience gut-wrenching self-examination and heartache as they consider their alternatives when they find themselves pregnant before they are ready to raise a family.

For them, abortion should be a legal, accessible, safe procedure.

Cutting federal funding to Planned Parenthood clinics only restricts access to many important and life-saving services that women, mostly poor, desperately need:  cancer screenings, sexually transmitted disease screenings and treatment, and birth control, to begin with.

Engaging in campaigns to change women’s minds once they have decided to have an abortion is both ineffective (even though the Pro-Life movement can always drudge up examples of a select few unborn they have “saved” outside an abortion clinic) and harassing.     It is also deeply egregious to assume that a woman who chooses to terminate a pregnancy has neither the will nor the capability to consider all her alternatives.


This quote by Madeleine Albright really pertains to the workplace.  I don’t even know if she is pro-choice.  Nonetheless, I feel moved to share it in this context because it is shameful that any woman would presume to bully a sister rather than support her in her time of deepest need and possibly shame.  To those women (and men) I say this:   It does not matter whether you believe life begins at conception or not:  are you going to raise the unwanted child?  

“I do not believe that just because you’re opposed to abortion, that that makes you pro-life. In fact, I think in many cases, your morality is deeply lacking if all you want is a child born but not a child fed, not a child educated, not a child housed. And why would I think that you don’t? Because you don’t want any tax money to go there. That’s not pro-life. That’s pro-birth. We need a much broader conversation on what the morality of pro-life is.”. — Sister Joan Chittister, Catholic Nun

Even though adoption exists, even adoption experts report that there are barriers to a pregnant woman choosing this option that go beyond just the accessibility of the choice:  shame, fear, lack of financial and social support, psychological inability to cope with carrying a baby to term and then losing it.  It takes a very strong person to carry a pregnancy to term knowing that at the end there will only be heartache and loss.  Those women that choose this option/path are to be praised.  But we cannot all emulate them. That’s the fact.

So, today, I join millions of men and women across the country in simply asserting that Planned Parenthood is an important organization – especially for women – that provides many critical services to the poorest among us and that, dismantling it by restricting access through funding or any other means is just wrong.  Abortions will continue regardless of whether they are legal and safe.  Shouldn’t women live in a culture that supports choice and promotes safe, affordable, legal access to reproductive services?  I think so.


  1. Well said. I wholeheartedly agree and am continually perplexed that so many can’t see this, especially women. Thank you for writing it. Hope things are going well for you, my friend. ~ Viv


    1. jtamburini says:

      Thank you so much, Viv! Love our “cyber” friendship!!!!


  2. Sherry says:

    Bravo! and Amen…



    1. jtamburini says:

      Thank you so much, Sherry!!!!!! Love being in touch with you and appreciate your kind words!


  3. Sydney says:

    On this one sweet Joanie I am not in agreement. What the Pro-Planned Parenthood people tend to forget is that Planned Parenthood sells body parts. They do partial birth abortions – if someone is pregnant and is not ready to start a family then they should know that in the first six weeks. While I believe that life begins at conception there is a BIG difference in an unformed fetus and a baby. Having an abortion at six months is beyond comprehension – all of the services that Planned Parenthood offers are available to women elsewhere. When they make so make so much money that their CEO makes half a million dollars (woman or man, the point being they pay a large salary regardless of whether or not they are “worth” it) then why do they need federal funding? There are many, many people who are in line to adopt yet wait forever and sometimes never get the child they want. People adopt from foreign countries because they can’t find a child in ours. I’m also a believer in birth control – if planned parenthood really wanted to help they would be more proactive in promoting birth control – abortion is not that. While at one time PP was an important necessity that is no longer the case. They have become a profit center and the harm they do is much more than the good they do. Sorry, I do enjoy your posts but on this one we’re miles apart.


    1. jtamburini says:

      Sorry I did not see this one earlier! PP only gets funding for services rendered and only for abortion as law provides in cases of rape or incest. I don’t agree with late-term abortions at all and do wish it were easier for people to adopt children. Thanks for your comments.


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